"God is eagerly waiting for the chance to answer your PRAYERS and to fulfill your DREAMS. But He can't if you don't PRAY and He can't if you Don't DREAM." Jeffrey Holland

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Ramadan Ramblings


Our Sunday dinner was with several hundred Muslims. Yep, that's the truth.  Craig and I attended a Ramadan 'Break the fast' at our local Mosque.  During the month of Ramadan, which celebrates the month in which Mohammed received the Qur'an,
Muslims fast every day from Sun up to Sun down.  Each night they meet together to break the fast with first a call to prayer then a feast.  I was allowed to put a scarf over my head, remove my shoes and go into the room where the prayer was offered and observe.  The men were all in straight rows at the front of the room.  The ladies, with heads covered in various beautiful scarves, were in the back of the room along with children.  A very long prayer is recited by the leader.  Often everyone bows on their knees and prostrates themselves at times during the prayer.  Moments of silence in which each individual recites parts of the prayer in silence occurs also.
After the prayer the meal began. In an effort not to overwhelm the taste buds of the guests mildly seasoned Persian food was served-all very delicious.
Craig and I were impressed as their leader spoke of the importance of fasting on the spirit.  Our religions are alike in their devotedness to the individual overcoming the yearnings of the flesh to strengthen the spirit.

As a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints we fast 24 hours one day a month. Even though I have been doing this since I was 8 years old it still feels like a big deal.  Being hungry is something I try to avoid.  I carry snacks in my purse, in the car, and have taken preparing for a disaster seriously.  I do not  want to be hungry...ever!  But, there is something powerful about fasting.  It gives you the opportunity to say, "I am in charge of this screaming body of mine!  I can do hard things!  Feeding the body is instinct but feeding the spirit requires concentrated effort. 

The best Fast is when I turn to Him for strength and offer to Him my hunger for righteousness. 
John Groberg tells of a time when he was a young missionary in Tonga on a small island that was severely hit by a hurricane.  Food became scarce as they waited and watched for a ship to come with supplies.  During this period of waiting John became very weak from hunger and thirst.  As he sat quietly under a tree trying to preserve strength he received enlightenment by reading scriptures and pondering. He records some of the Eternal truths he learned in a book entitled,
In the Eye of the Storm.
This is one that had impact on me:

“When you don’t have much food or water, your body seems to absorb about everything so you don’t have to move a lot.  It was a good time for pondering.  The Lord really gets our attention at times like this.  Just sitting in a weakened condition for several days makes a deep impression.  I wondered if that may have been one of the reasons that the Lord allowed Joseph Smith to sit in jail for several months.  I reflected on the prophet’s statement, “The things of God are of more import; and time, and experience, and careful and ponderous and solemn thoughts can only find them out” (TPJS, p.137).

TAKE TIME TO PONDER (p. 113): ‘Sometimes the situations that compel us to do so, such as illness or disasters, are seen as cursings rather than the blessings they can be if properly used. Is it possible that in our busy, work-a-day world, one of the great blessings the Lord gives us is to put us in a situation where we must be quiet, without a lot of outside disturbance and pressures?  Maybe then we will study, ponder, and think  of Him, His ways, and His purposes.
    ...Be still (D&C 101:16, Psalm 46:10)..(sit quietly, get rid of outside pressures-go to the temple, for example-don’t worry about this world) and know that I am God.” 
OR “Be still so you can know that I am God and so you can learn of Me and My ways.”  If we aren’t willing to be still, it’s harder to know that He is God.  If the purpose of life is to know and love God, then maybe one of Satan’s best weapons to keep us from that knowledge is to keep us so busy, even doing good things, and so occupied with commitments and pressures that we don’t allow ourselves to be still so we can know God is God!”


Confession: I have a very difficult time being 'still'.  For several months I have been trying to prioritize my life to allow a more of a stillness in my soul.  I have had success with this but much room is left for growth. 
John Groberg's forced Fast allowed him to sit quietly, offer himself to God and be taught what is really important in life.

 It must feel triumphant to Fast for 30 days.   I know it does for 24 hours!  After 24 hours I feel a keener spiritual awakening.  What would it be like to Fast 30 days?  What awakening could take place?





Sunday, August 14, 2011

Family History




Have I confessed the love of family history?  If it weren't for terrific self control I would be spending hour after hour organizing, writing, searching, comparing, connecting, interviewing, photographing and pondering family members lives. 

It all began when I was 12.  A Beehive goal that I accomplished was to create  4 generation family tree.  Mother had most of the information needed nevertheless I sat with pen in hand and copied (there were no copy machines in those days) each page for myself.  Merely writing the names of people I had never met created an interest that I knew then, at that young age, would never leave me.  And it never has.  All through the years I have been engaged in one way or another trying to preserve and find family memories, photos, and such.

Miracles have occurred.  Many miracles.  So many times I call Mom or Dad to tell them the great news.  I found someone!  I know someones entire name now!  I found a photo of so and so!! I have connected with a cousin we never knew of!! On and On.  It is thrilling.

The most recent miracle is a distant cousin (whom I have never met) has decided to transfer his family tree to Ancestry.com.  This is where my family tree is located.  By his doing this I have access to information regarding a family line that I know very little of. 

Do you work on your family tree?


Saturday, August 6, 2011

3 Posts in One Day?

   I am on a roll making posts today. 3!  It feels good to catch up.
Earlier this morning I read Lauri's blog showing 2 crafts she had recently made.  They are darling pin cushions.  She is always doing something clever.  Well,  she got me in the mood to create. 

This is a small (3x4) tablet from, as you can see- Staples  (2@ $1)
Using scraps of scrapbook paper I created these!
Simple, inexpensive and Creative!
I recall President Uchtdorf's wisdom regarding 'creating'. 


"The desire to create is one of the deepest yearnings of the human soul. No matter our talents, education, backgrounds, or abilities, we each have an inherent wish to create something that did not exist before.
Everyone can create. You don’t need money, position, or influence in order to create something of substance or beauty.
Creation brings deep satisfaction and fulfillment. We develop ourselves and others when we take unorganized matter into our hands and mold it into something of beauty..."  Nov. 2008

3 Birthdays and a Finger

That's right.  3 birthdays.
#1.  Makayla celebrated her 8 11/12 birthday at the family reunion.  We combined our finances to buy her an American Girl.  We had all been together the month prior when Italia received one for her birthday. Since we wouldn't all be together in September we celebrated early.



By the way, don't say American Girl DOLL!!! We get in big trouble around here for such a faux paux.  It is either an American Girl or she can be called by her name.  NOT DOLL!!!!!!!!!!!


#2.  Corbin is 7!  He was jubilant to open his gifts.  When he opened the Legos both he and Cooper shouted in unison!! 
Clever Grandma put sparklers along with candles on the cake.


#3.  My honey.  Since Craig and I really don't 'need' anything (have we really arrived at that age?  I remember hearing old people say such a thing but never could imagine feeling that way!), I gave him a surprise experience.

We went to San Diego and stayed in a grand hotel at the harbor.  This is the view from our room.

We loved walking about.  There is something magical about sea air.


Close to our hotel we found Bob Hope!


and a couple kissing!

We enjoyed several hours at the U.S.S. Midway

(it's not that easy to get photos of us as a couple these days).

It was a wonderful Birthday.

OHHH...the finger... Craig had cancer surgery on a finger!!  (don't look if you are faint of heart!)
I made the photo small so it would be less graphic.

Family Reunion

These cuties and their parents congregated at our house for a week.  Sleeping quarters were mainly the dining room (for the children).  The fun was simply 'over the top'.  We:
Went swimming at Lura and John's


Painted Tee Shirts
Took an Adventurous walk in the country (around the corner)
Acted silly
Played in the river created by a broken fire hydrant around the corner
Attended a "U2" cover band concert
Learned about Testimony Gloves
Canned Tomatoes

And went to the beach.  We have 2 Gidget's.

These little girls were entertained for hours as they practiced 'surfing'






The above 3 photos were taken during the Talent Show!